Living with optimism despite the suffering
By Maria Kathrina Lopez Yarza
Published: April 15, 2013
It’s always nice to know that you’ve been a big influence in somebody’s betterment, no matter how big or small the improvement is.
Two years ago, I met Karen Bernal, a 30-year-old woman who has chronic kidney disease and is undergoing dialysis. She is suffering from both physical and emotional pain. Although she never lost hope in getting a transplant and being cured, she was constantly sad and fearful because of all the problems that her sickness brought – financial and family problems to name a few. She also indulged in self-pity during those times.
“Maybe I could make Karen realize how beautiful life is,” I challenged myself and from then on we started becoming friends. I often gave her advice, told her jokes, cheered her on, and helped her realize how important her existence is.
I also encouraged her to join the recent essay-writing contest by World Kidney Day Philippines. Below was her entry: